Home Page -- Messages Section

Examine The actual log of all requests for the Books from the public section of this web site.  This log started on September 4, 2002.  Approximately 900 previous requests did not get placed into this log.

Examine The actual log of all survey responses from the public section of this web site.

Separate Index Page of Negative Responses

Separate Index Page of Morals Counseling Dialogues

Separate Index Page of Messages to Karl, but NOT from this web -- useful still


Individual letters, each on its own page, here:

Is It My Fault That My Daughter Has Turned To Drugs?

John's Brother Is A Pedophile

How a related commercial activity can align with TWTH

A Strongly Christian Woman Has Trouble With a Bible-Quoting Husband

Is It OK? To Help A Friend On Probation Cheat On His Drug Test?

A Truck Driver's Moral Dilemma

Mary Looking For Help -- First On Fibromyalgia, then on "Wrong Relationships," and Finally on Happiness

Probably A Typical Evaluation Of TWTH By A Very Devout Christian

What Blissful Escape Does Marijuana Offer?  Amy!

Jet Has Been Previously Impressed And Promised To Help Promote My Pages -- Now His First Reading Of Happiness Web

From Mark:  You may have just beat the system with this web site.  I had been discouraged. There is hope.

Probably A Likely Typical Reaction From A Strongly  Religious Person Who Has Received the Books

Wrong Relationship Creates Illness -- For Life!

ANY Return Communication Is A WIN here -- This is Diane's Return Message

"Get A Picture Of A Cat" -- Mental Exercise by EMail With John

Sarah's Brother Abandons His Marriage -- His Folks Think That's OK

Janey's Cancer Caused By Wrong Relationships

Rooda Suffers Wrong Relationships --  But Doesn't Think She Can Change Them!

Becky Has Problems With Her Son in a Fatherless Home

She Loves A Drunk!  He Is The Sweetest Person

I Can Start With My Family And Friends!

Vickie Rooda -- Has Problems, But Doesn't Know How To Solve Them

Roz Watches Her Daughter Kill Herself -- With Help From Psychiatry

A Hostile Home Schooler Vegetarian

You Didn't Believe Me -- But I Got Off The Drug Cold Turkey -- Now Here Is The Name Of That  Doctor

 


The below messages are all on one page at the link, with examples shown below.

Actual Messages From People Requesting The Books

These pages are in the following format.  I've selected an incoming message that had a particularly nice compliment to make about me.  Below that one are excerpts of the message part, only, for other selected messages.  Each of these excerpts has a link to the actual full message.


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Source:                Happiness On Line Org
Contact_FirstName:     James
Contact_LastName:      Calvert
Contact_MiddleInitial: F
Subscribe:             Please send the two free books
Contact_Title:        
Contact_Organization: 
Contact_WorkPhone:     (740) 373-6000
Contact_HomePhone:     (740) 373-6000
Contact_FAX:           (740) 568-5000
Contact_Email:         jimcalvert@charter.net
T1:                    jimcalvert@charter.net
Contact_URL:          
Contact_Address_1:     507 Second Street
Contact_Address_2:    
Contact_City:          Marietta
Contact_State:         OH
Contact_Zip:           45750-2119
Contact_Country:       United States
Survey:                No reply on this question
Remote Name:           24.196.184.7
Remote User:          
HTTP User Agent:       Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows 98; Q312461)
Date:                  Wednesday August 28, 2002
Time:                  07:26:26 AM -0600

message:

Dear Karl,
I think that your are one of the best commentators in the USA today.

I have used any of your products yet,  But I love your letters.  I hear a lot about calcium for heart etc, fat loss produicts, etc. I find it very confusing to sort out just what an individual should use as supplements..  So I oftem try this and that and really see little difference.


I took 2 hours going thru your site and loved it! I can't wait till I receive your books. Keep up the good work!  (source)


Dear Karl,I think that you are providing something that many people are searching for. My question is this. I have now realised that my husband deliberately manoeuvered me into a situation where he was able to presuade me against my wishes and instincts to do things of a sexual nature that were morally abhorrent to me. I tried to leave him almost two months ago but he threatened my family, to take away my daughter, etc and I came back, he believes that it was of my own free will because I told him so in order to calm him down. I am trying to forgive him and move on with my life as normally as possible but I am consumed with hate and I dwell on what he has done to me. How to I find peace and happiness in this situation? I cannot leave my children so I have to stay. (source)


Dear Karl, I most certainlly am intrigued by this site. I am curious  as to "Karl's" personal spiritual orientation. I especially liked the article on relationships effecting our
health and am wondering what he may think about how our
spirituality may factor in to that issue. gby  Linda (source)


Dear Karl,I think your site is great! SO true about what you say! My father was a heroin addict, (or is, who knows!), my mother is HIGHLY addicted to pain killers due to many medical problems. I am trying to raise my 3 children the best my fiancee(sp) and I know how. We have been together for 8 years Sept.28th and now our goal is to be married soon (finacially unable to!). We want to do things right for us and our kids. Keep up the great work!                              ~Anna~  (source)


Dear Karl,

Do you feel that the advent of abortion on demand has so devalued lives -- in particular those of children -- that the current "rash" of child kidnappings, molestations and murders should have been expected?  That children are becoming so "disposable" that instances of these types of crimes are going to rise? (source)


Dear Karl, Tell me what you think of being married and having feeling for someone else.  I am in this situation and have not really acted on it much. I feel I am in love with this other man.  What are your feelings  (source)


Dear Karl,

I want to see IF you actually ANSWER emails :) 5:50 p.m. PST August 14, 2002 & counting *g*

Love your site :)

Charlene  (source)


Dear Karl,
It is great to find honesty.

I have been through a lot in my personal life and have been devastated by other peoples greed.

Currently losing my home while trying to do the Mom thing and keep up a good front for my kids.

You have a great site. I have learned so much from you.

God bless you.
  Kathy (source)


Dear Karl,
I enjoy reading the letter very much and I agree with what you are saying. I also spend a lot time reading the information on your web site. Thanks for taking the time to write the letters.

                     Larry Collier  (source)


Dear Karl,
     I trust the information on your site and in your newsletters because you aren't hawking the latest snake oil cure. I don't feel that you have a vested interest in the information you provide.

I believe that you have an honest interest in giving the bottom line on issues--that you want people to take control of their own lives and their own health. We are all "one in the spirit" I am so thankful to have a brother like you Karl. Thank you for being so loving and such a hard worker for us all.  (source)


Dear Karl,
I find your thoughts stimulating, and I'm particularly interested in a moral code that is not forced on others. I'm curious to see what's in your book. Thanks, Steve  (source)


Dear Karl,

I believe your website is very instructive, the people can look for answers for very important questions. I liked so much it.

Best Regards,

Rogerio Bello  (source)


Dear Karl,

Even though I am not a religious person, I do agree with your view. You are certainly correct about "moral drift" and a 'common-sense-point-of-view'. We also have 'moral drift' over here in the UK/europe as. Crimes of the most horrific kind that were once very rare, now happen almost every day.

Our society is being dragged down by drug addiction, sexual perversions (both "actually" promoted by official government

policy) violent crime, greed, corruption and dishonesty in high places.

Our govermental system is rotten to the core and stinks.

Yours most sincerely

Paul Kilfoyle  (source)


Dear Karl,
     This site is very informative and I enjoy reading your many articles.  (
Source)


Dear Karl,

What part of the Web did I enjoy the most, was hard to answer. My husband & I have watched the Van Damn trial,& believe Mr. Westerfield is guilty.  Also, believe the parent's lifestyle is wrong & may have contributed to her death.  Hopefully they have or will realize this & change.  Hopefully, others will do the same, who have chosen this kind of lifestyle!  Thank you for a informative newsletter.  Lonnie Lu Anderson   (source)

Dear Karl,
You are doing very fine work. I hope you have continuing good health and wisdom, and keep up the wonderful work that you are doing to make the world a better place.  God bless you. (source)


Dear Karl,
i really like your site, you cover alot of topics that most people wont discuss. keep up the good work karl  (source)


Dear Karl,
      This is wonderful. I told some of my friends to check it out. Thanks.  (source)



Dear Karl,

    I read Moral Adrift and Happiness Home Page want to read the other to but would like to get your two free books hope we the people can see what is happening before it gets so bad that there is no return. Keep up the good work.  (source)


Dear Karl,

I am very delighted that there's a web site dedicated to morals on the Intenet... I was specifically searching for a site like this, only to find web sites owned by various groups preaching immorality (swinger clubs, pornography sites, etc.) or web sites owned by groups preaching anti-American hatered.

I am deeply concerned with morality of the American society. I am troubled by declining marriage rates and rising divorce rates - virtual degradation of the traditional family institution. I am also very concerned with overwhelming drug abuse and excessive sexual freedoms in the society.

I beleive the lack of morals makes the society weaker against external threats. Not only against militants, but also against economic threats, with most of the factory production transferred over seas.

With the new wave of corporate scandals, American economy seems to be doomed, unless speedy measures are taken to prevent the economy from falling.

That is why I believe it is very important for people like yourself to speak up against degradation in the society. Keep it up.

NO NAME GIVEN  (source)


Dear Karl,

I am in the United States Navy. I see allot of kids coming in these days, that have no fear or respect. I am not sure where we are failing as parents but I know somewhere we all need to take a hard look at ourselves.

I try to teach my children right from wrong, but at the same time allow them to make their own mistakes.

I think we make allot of rules for the right reasons, but then for some reason they get blown way out of proportion.

Have a good day!

Ken  (source)


Dear Karl,

I know God will rain down blessings upon you for standing up and speaking out!

May God Bless and Keep You!
Michelle  (source)

 


Dear Karl,

Enjoy reading all your information that you offer about the sad state of affairs. I am a very involved father of an 11 year old boy who is told by words and more importantly by actions that he is loved and cared for as a very special unique child.
I love the quote, "What you are speaks so loudly, I cannot hear what you are saying!"  One of my goals is to not have that quotation used against me not only by my son or wife but by members of my extended family and community. All the best. Keep up your great work. It doesn't go unnoticed.

Kevin (source)


Dear Karl,
The question was, What did I think of this site?  I'm not sure yet.  I only explored some of it.  I will continue to look over a period of time.  I wonder how the "moral code" is chosen.  Who decides what's right or wrong?  Kaymcarmody@yahoo.com  (source)


Dear Karl,

WHY?????

(Man often thinks in terms of pictures. If I say to you, "cat," you may well get a mental picture of a cat. Some people will "see" this cat in color, some in black and white. Some will see a cat they recognize, others will see some cat they don't recognize. Some will see the cat in motion, others not. Some will see this picture in three dimensions, some in a flat two dimensional view. Some pictures may even include sound or smell. Some get only blackness, or light, or whatever they get.)

WHY??

Karl Why???  (source)


Dear Karl,

Really

I like everything that I read so far just wish I could get it in book form,

So far I agree with what you have sent e-mail.

I picked your e-mail by someone that forwarded to me, but don't remember who it was. I would say keep up the good work if we could just get more people to see how our country is going down hill.

Do you have book's or pamphlets with the subjects you write on?

Clair  (source)


Dear Karl,
I am miserable in a relationship with a non-commital man and I now realize he is just like my ex-husband.  Thank you for helping me to see that this is making me unhealthy. (source)



Dear Karl,
I think this is a very interesting site. I hope people take advantage of the free books. I think more people need to know about morals. It is like I think the word  NICE needs to be explained more to people. People need to be NICE to each other.  (source)
 



I really think we need a site like this in this day and age and age to "wake up" America and bring people back to the morals and standards that they USED to hold back in the 1950's and early 1960's.  As to the Catholic Church, nowadays, you will find young girls going up for Holy Communion in jeans and a halter top, which you would have NEVER seen back in the 1950's!!  All women were REQUIRED to wear either hats or veils back then!  Also, the Mass is just more or less "come as you ARE", and people just wear shorts, blue jeans, etc. to church.  I just CANT'T believe it!
     The only ones who hold up to their creed that I know of are the people in the Orthodox Church and the United Pentecostal Church.  They say that God never changes, and nneither will THEY!  I will still remain Catholic, but I don't "come as you are" when I go to Mass.
  (source)
 



Dear Karl,
I enjoyed my visit to your wonderful site and I look forward to recieveing the free book.
Thank you,
amber gosselin
  source


Dear Karl,

This site provided me with some of the information that was need to begin my research on this subject.

Thank you  
source


Dear Karl,  The site is cool and i will like you to send me topics on our to control your sex anxiousness and also how to make away with homosexualism.

Reply: 

Thanks for the comment on the sex section.   The moral code does NOT criticize homosexuality -- it does criticize promiscuous sex, whether straight or not.  The same would be true about "anxiety."  To be anxious about sex would not be seen as a moral problem as long as you are faithful to a sexual partner, not promiscuous.   Not to say that these other matters may not bother someone, but the point here is that they are NOT issues of morality in this book.  This is not a "gay book" either.  It is just that sexual promiscuity is often practiced by homosexuals, and the promiscuity would be the immoral activity, not the homosexuality.  Honest gays should welcome this moral code, and straights ought not to object. 

source


Dear Karl, I will like topics on purpose.

Reply:

Dear Okebiorun,   Purpose?  An interesting comment.  Are you suggesting that there is some morality connected with "purpose."  I don't have anything that quite qualifies on this, but perhaps you could give me an example? Thanks.  (Source)

Dear Karl,

I had sex with this girl by accident, got her pregnant.  I don't have the money for an abortion, I can't tell my parents.  I'm in college. What can I do?  (source)


Dear Karl,

I am continually telling my daughter to "Always tell the truth," even if it means it might make someone mad.  (source)


Dear Karl,

I want my kids to read it and not just take peoples words for granted.. this will give them something to think about so that they can research and decide for themselves how they will live with smarter choices in the future. (source)